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The Transformation of Mike Bloomberg

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Should I Be a Journalist or a Fetish Model?

By Dan Savage

Dear Dan: I am a straight, cross-dressing male into bondage. That's NOT my problem. Recently, I began seeing a professional dominatrix for forced...
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Is There Something Gay About Using a Butt Plug?

By Dan Savage

Dear Dan: I have to say I'm disappointed. Proposition 8 passed in California, as did anti-gay-marriage amendments in Florida and Arizona. Decency...
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My Fiancee Loves Animal Porn

By Dan Savage

Dear Dan: I'm a 32-year-old female engaged to a 34-year-old man. Some months ago, when we were both drunk, he "got up the nerve" to show me some...
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How Long Will Come Keep? (Yes, That Kind.)

By Dan Savage

Dear Dan: My boyfriend recently moved in with me—the first straight guy I've ever shared an apartment with. I'm very clean and take great...
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A Smug Bisexual Writes in about Milky-White Breasts

By Dan Savage

Once again, Savage Love is given over to letters from readers who made the largest donations to the campaigns to preserve marriage equality in...
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Pucker Up «

Why People Get Off on the Sex-for-Money Scenario

By Tristan Taormino

Every year at kinky sex camp, we create a multi-room erotic play-space for attendees, and for one night, each room has a theme. We like to keep...
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Nina Hartley's Guide to Pregnant Sex

Her latest movie offers a sex-positive approach to that oft-neglected subject

By Tristan Taormino

I flew to Minneapolis last month to celebrate the fifth anniversary of feminist-women-owned sex shop the Smitten Kitten (smittenkittenonline.com)....
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Vice Tries to Bust Me on the Porn Set

Unexpected visitors on the porn set

By Tristan Taormino

Whenever I go to L.A. to shoot my porn and sex-ed movies, my partner and I stay at his mother's house in Pasadena. And this time, his sister was...
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Straight Men Who Have Sex With Men

Inside the secret world of the straight guise

By Tristan Taormino

Once again, a female singer has a hit song called "I Kissed A Girl"; I saw Katy Perry perform it on network television the other night. As she...
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What If the Bachelorette Was Polyamorous?

How TV shows represent open relationships—and how they could do better

By Tristan Taormino

I watched The Bachelorette. There, I said it. I've always been fascinated by these reality dating shows where one person has multiple girlfriends...
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Can’t Keep Track of Your Sex Life? The Internet Can.

By Bonnie Ruberg

What would your sex life look like as a pie chart? How many times have you orgasmed from intercourse over the last twenty years? Has your favorite...
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Hot for Teacher: Cybersex With a Naughty Professor

Has a hookup with a Middle America PhD turned into an accidental online relationship?

By Bonnie Ruberg

In college, I always had the hots for my professors. In class I was the model student, but back in the dorms I liked nothing more than the thought...
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Stuck in a Sexless Marriage? You're Not Alone.

Why over 3000 people have shared their tales of platonic woe at ExperienceProject.com.

By Bonnie Ruberg

Grits4Ever, a forty-something Southern wife and mother who’d prefer to go by her anonymous online handle, doesn’t have sex with her...
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Sarah Palin Erotica

The ex-beauty queen takes down her hair and goes wild—in your dreams

By Bonnie Ruberg

As the carnal inspiration for schoolgirl action figures, naughty Halloween costumes, and an upcoming Hustler porn, Sarah Palin is the first overt...
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Digiromp: There's a Hot Lesbian Party and You're Not Invited

This new social-networking site considers itself the Facebook of lesbian sex. Straight girls and guys get turned away at the door.

By Bonnie Ruberg

Lesbians, if you're looking for a subtle online spot to hang out with fellow women who love women, Digiromp isn't it. The new social network for...
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